I am kinda pissed(big rant)

[bigd2010]

Ok many things pissed me off today.

1. My gf decided that she is going clubbing tonight for a girls night. I am sorry if this sounds controlling but, I do not want my girl going to a club without me. It really bugs me and when I told her this she just insisted on throwing the control issue in my face. Needless to say she is at the club right now and I am pissed.

2. I raced a 2005 mustang gt last night...lost by like 1 car length from a dig we shut off at around 85mph. I dont know his mods but for some reason he had no exhaust out the back? or the side? and it wasnt all that loud. He did get a jump on me(kinda not bad) and needless to say I am not happy a gt beat me.

3. I am driving to work today and there is a wreck on the other side of the interstate(sad, i hate wrecks) but for some reason the retards on my side are stopped to watch? I mean I sit in this traffic for like 15 min. I almost yelled out the window some bad bad things lol. I controlled myself and cranked the tunes. Needless to say I hate people.

4. I am at work tonight doing a abdominal wound closure on this patient who had a ruptured aorta(we fixed it 3 days ago). The case turns into this 3 hours surgery(supposed to be 30 min). I didnt have the right instruments and blah blah. I felt bad for the patient because of what we had to do but, at the same time it always seems I get these types of cases when others are doing the simple ass 10 minute shit. ARG! I love my work but, I would like a break sometimes!

Ok, I am done. Sorry for those who actually read all this.

-Mike

[TheWastedYears]

Originally Posted by bigd2010

My gf decided that she is going clubbing tonight for a girls night. I am sorry if this sounds controlling but, I do not want my girl going to a club without me. It really bugs me and when I told her this she just insisted on throwing the control issue in my face. Needless to say she is at the club right now and I am pissed.

Hate to say it, but she's right.

[bigd2010]

I guess if you lived around here, new the club and new her friends it would be a different opinon..but again your opinions are yours...i should have added that to be completely honest this is the only thing that i can truely say i am a bit controlling on...everything else is a 50 50 decision

[redlineinsc]

Originally Posted by bigd2010

Ok many things pissed me off today.

1. My gf decided that she is going clubbing tonight for a girls night. I am sorry if this sounds controlling but, I do not want my girl going to a club without me. It really bugs me and when I told her this she just insisted on throwing the control issue in my face. Needless to say she is at the club right now and I am pissed.

2. I raced a 2005 mustang gt last night...lost by like 1 car length from a dig we shut off at around 85mph. I dont know his mods but for some reason he had no exhaust out the back? or the side? and it wasnt all that loud. He did get a jump on me(kinda not bad) and needless to say I am not happy a gt beat me.

3. I am driving to work today and there is a wreck on the other side of the interstate(sad, i hate wrecks) but for some reason the retards on my side are stopped to watch? I mean I sit in this traffic for like 15 min. I almost yelled out the window some bad bad things lol. I controlled myself and cranked the tunes. Needless to say I hate people.

4. I am at work tonight doing a abdominal wound closure on this patient who had a ruptured aorta(we fixed it 3 days ago). The case turns into this 3 hours surgery(supposed to be 30 min). I didnt have the right instruments and blah blah. I felt bad for the patient because of what we had to do but, at the same time it always seems I get these types of cases when others are doing the simple ass 10 minute shit. ARG! I love my work but, I would like a break sometimes!

Ok, I am done. Sorry for those who actually read all this.

-Mike

1: Let the girl be.... you should be able to trust her

2: OUCH.... fuck mustangs, i hate them with a passion... sorry about your loss

3: RUBBER-NECKERS SUCK... but hey, at least THEY slow down so YOU can look... lol

4: um.... yeah... haha

[bigd2010]

so honestly you guys are sayin you would let your gf, fiance, wife go to a dance club with her friends? it maybe my age(20) but i just feel so uncomfortable with it. its not really about her cheating or whatever..its more of the issue i dont trust other people..make sense?

[redlineinsc]

Originally Posted by bigd2010

so honestly you guys are sayin you would let your gf, fiance, wife go to a dance club with her friends? it maybe my age(20) but i just feel so uncomfortable with it. its not really about her cheating or whatever..its more of the issue i dont trust other people..make sense?

yeah dude, i feel ya... im 20 too... i dont really trust other ppl, but i trust HER enough so that she wont do anything of that sort... besides, just bc she's in a club doesnt mean anything... she could be hit on by anyone ANYWHERE... like, at the gas station, mcdonalds, etc

[bigd2010]

i guess i have just had bad experiences with that type of stuff. I dont care if guys hit on her.. its is the persisting guys that I have seen to do other girls that i hate. I mean hell this club is middle line between nice and trashy...two weekends ago some dude punched a girl in the face because she accidently bumped into him spilling some beer. I mean it is shit like that. I know she wont do anything(we been together 2 yrs). But still, i more so worry for her safety. I know i sound like a friggin shmo but o well.

[vegasredline]

Originally Posted by bigd2010

so honestly you guys are sayin you would let your gf, fiance, wife go to a dance club with her friends? it maybe my age(20) but i just feel so uncomfortable with it. its not really about her cheating or whatever..its more of the issue i dont trust other people..make sense?

If you are in a committed relationship (like marriage) then you are right. If you are just shacking up be a real man and tie the knot. Otherwise, you don't have control over her unless there is real commitment. I would never go to a bar or club without my wife, whether she wanted me to or not. Before we were married though and just dating of course I would.

[redlineinsc]

Originally Posted by vegasredline

If you are in a committed relationship (like marriage) then you are right. If you are just shacking up be a real man and tie the knot. Otherwise, you don't have control over her unless there is real commitment. I would never go to a bar or club without my wife, whether she wanted me to or not. Before we were married though and just dating of course I would.

WERD!!!!

she's with her friends, so im sure she'll be just fine... does she ever do this or is it a random thing?

[manticus]

Originally Posted by vegasredline

If you are in a committed relationship (like marriage) then you are right. If you are just shacking up be a real man and tie the knot. Otherwise, you don't have control over her unless there is real commitment. I would never go to a bar or club without my wife, whether she wanted me to or not. Before we were married though and just dating of course I would.

Uh, I've been dating my girlfriend for 5 years, no marriage yet. We're as committed as any married couple (and I'd dispute the rational of marriages being any more committed than a long-term relationship).

Also disagree with the "control" thing when you're married - marriage/relationships are about trust - not control. I plan on going out to the bar periodically without my girlfriend/wife for as long as I live and I'll let her do the same. We both know that it's FUN and we know our limits and boundaries.

As for your girl, bigd - let her go out. I used to smother my ex and not let her go out to the clubs by herself and it ended really bad for me - you can't coup them up in the house forever.

Ian